Have you ever gotten SO excited about getting your photos from your photographer… and then completely forget about them for several weeks?
Yeah, me too. đââď¸
Every season seems to be a busy season these days. The last several times we’ve had our family photos taken, I’d eagerly await the images, get the gallery link, share it with my husband, start favoriting images, and then…
Life would happen.
Iâd realize it was late and I needed to go to bed (or I wouldnât be a nice person the next day). Or one of the kids would need something, and Iâd get distracted. Or the dog barks at the UPS driver. You get the idea.
And then one day, Iâd remember that I hadnât gone back to make our final selections and complete the order. đ¤Śââď¸
And that’s not good for anyone.
It’s not good for me because I don’t have my images yet. I haven’t printed them, haven’t done all the things I wanted to do with them (and I always have plans).
And it’s definitely not good for the photographer because I’m gumming up their workflow. I know Iâm not their only client, so my delay means itâs just sitting there in their queue, waiting to be tied up with a bow.
In my opinion, itâs a super inefficient process for everyone involved.
It also made me realize that I wanted to change that for my business. That I wanted to take something thatâs pretty impersonal and make it personal.
The Gallery Problem: Why âIndustry Standardâ Wasnât Working
So why am I telling you this?
Because I had a conversation with someone recently who was genuinely shocked that I don’t use online galleries.
“But I thought that was industry standard?â she asked.
Nope. While there are a lot of photographers out there who use online galleries, every photographer does things differently.
And me?
I’m a Quality Time gal and love getting to know my clients. That’s why my process is designed the way it is.
How My In-Person Review Process Works
Here’s how it works:
Right after your session (or within 2-3 business days at the latest), the two of us look through all of your imagery. Every last image.
You get to see:
All the misfires when the flash didn’t flash
Everything that’s out of focus (because I’m human, I make mistakes)
All of the awkward poses
And all of the AMAZING images
All at once.
Why I Show You Everything (Even the Outtakes)
Why?
Because I did use online galleries once. And I did use to cull them down before I sent them.
And then I realized that doing that really was a disservice to both of us.
When weâre in person together, we can look at everything, and you get to choose the images that stand out for you. If I pre-cull them, I might be taking images out that I don’t like because I’m looking at them with a technical eye.
Which means that I’m not looking at them from the point of view of the client.
And there are some images that my clients absolutely love, that if I had culled them out, they wouldn’t have gotten to see.
And when you choose an image I would have culled? Thatâs when the magic happens: youâre teaching me about yourself. Youâre teaching me how you see yourself. Youâre teaching me what smile you feel is your best smile. Youâre teaching me all sorts of things that I would not have known otherwise.
I’m looking at them from a technical perspective, but you’re not. And I absolutely love seeing which ones resonate with you, often for reasons I’d never have considered.
So I think it’s a really intimate process to go through these images with you, and you get to see everything.

Real-Time Conversations Make All the Difference
You also get to ask all of those burning questions, in real time:
- “I love this one, but how does it fit my brand?”
- “Can we swap my expression from this image with my pose from that one?”
- “This lighting looks bonkers – is that intentional?” (Sometimes yes, sometimes… crazy pants happens đ )
These are conversations you cannot have with a photographer in real time when you’re staring at a gallery at 2 am.
Because let’s be real: youâre typically looking at your gallery after hours, not during the workday when you can actually reach your photographer.
It happened to me.
I had a question at one point with one of our family sessions.
I loved a particular image, but I couldnât tell if it was actually in focus. It was late evening and I couldnât call the photographer; I sent an email instead. Which led to a back-and-forth email chain that delayed me getting my images.
So letâs take out the middleman and look at them together. Immediately after your session.
The Benefits of Doing It This Way
The benefits of doing it this way:
- â Quality time – We get to discuss how you’ll use your images, what matters to you, and any tweaks you want
- â No delay – You see everything immediately, not weeks later when the excitement has worn off
- â Better selections – I’m not culling based on my technical preferences; you’re choosing what resonates with you
- â Faster turnaround – We solve problems upfront, not three weeks later via email or text or phone tag
What Happens After We Choose Your Images
Once we’ve chosen all of your imagery and any artwork, I put them in the retouching queue.
When they’re ready, they’re delivered via Dropbox. You have 48 hours to review them, to let me know if they’re perfect or if there’s that one tiny thing you’d like adjusted (there’s one additional round of editing included).
Once theyâre approved? Youâre good to go and Iâm ready to order any printed products you fell in love with at the studio.
And because I use the printer that I do, you’re getting heirloom-quality prints that’ll outlast all of us.
The more we can solve upfront, the faster you get your final images. Itâs a win-win for both of us!
Experience It For Yourself
So if you’ve been putting off booking because you’re dreading the whole “forget about the gallery for three weeks” cycle?
Good news: That’s not how I do things here.
Ready to experience a different kind of photography session? Fill out the form below and letâs get started.
Common Questions About My Review Process
How long does the in-person review take?
Reviewing and selecting your images typically takes 30 – 60 minutes, depending on how decisive you are. I ask you to go with your gut feeling about whether you love the image or not, and we go through as many rounds as we need to to get to your absolute favorites. Some clients are fast decision-makers while others take their time. Itâs all up to you and I do not rush you through it.
What if I canât decide during the selection appointment?
No problem! We’ll schedule another appointment (either in-person or virtual) within 2-3 business days to review your images again.
This is also what happens if we run out of time or are just exhausted after the session (sometimes we can have too much fun!). The important part is that weâre reviewing the images together and that you have the space to ask all the questions you need to ask.
Do I have to buy all the images we review?
Certainly not! We review everything so that youâre able to see all options and choose only the images you love. Youâre only purchasing the images you love and want to keep for yourself. Some clients choose my bottom package of 10 and some choose my top package of 30 (or more!). Itâs entirely up to you.
What happens if I change my mind about an image?
If you realize this before any files are delivered, we can set up a time to meet and review the images again. However, once files are delivered and the sale is complete, I can’t swap images out. That said, because we review everything together upfront, this rarely happens – clients are usually thrilled with what they’ve chosen!
What if Iâm terrible at making decisions?
I think youâll be surprised at how easy it is when weâre looking at them together! While I do not choose images for you, I’m here to guide you through the process, answer questions, and help you think through how you’ll use each image. Plus, seeing your genuine reactions helps both of us identify which images truly resonate with you. And remember, there are no wrong choices. All that matters is that you love the image!